Most of people didn’t realize that breakup can be traumatic. Breakup could cause you overwhelming and long-lasting grief.

Many ways that people do to end the sadness that shows after breakup. Start dating quickly (without learn from their past) or stay single under the statement of “I have to improving myself before decided to starting the new one”.

I am the part of second statement. Staying single. Its not because I like being single, I just can’t. Because I spent too much time wondering whether someone is the right one for me?

Until a few days ago I figured that the real question was..

Would I be ready when the right one comes along?

Would I be ready to work on my trauma and move forward?

Would I be ready to stop making excuses for not letting go of the past?

Would I be ready to forgive myself for not being “perfect”?

Would I be ready to love myself unconditionally before anyone else?